The no 1 mistake parents of kids with ADHD 6 or 16 make is that we know it’s a can’t not a won’t but in the moment we don’t believe it . Yes folks we need to own our bs . You see your child motivated to do all the things that they want to do but ask them to do what you need them to and now they won’t . So what do you do - you yell punish threaten bribe use reward charts . And it doesn’t work only makes things worse . And the root is saying it is a can’t not a won’t without seeing inside the brai